Dear Adventurers,
Lately, I’ve been thinking about how much I’ve let other people’s definitions shape my view of success and worth. It’s easy to fall into that trap—measuring myself by outcomes, timelines, or the approval of others. But the truth is, I’m already enough. And so are you.
This letter is a reminder. A reclaiming. A shift in the story I’ve been telling myself. I wrote it for me—but maybe, if you’re in the middle of redefining your own journey, it’s for you too.
Hey Love,
Let's change the narrative.
External circumstances do not define my worth or determine my success. Both are inherently mine, simply because I exist.
I am worthy—of healthy relationships, of financial freedom, of unconditional love.
And I am worthy of success—success as defined by me, not by anyone else's expectations.
For me, success means becoming a more authentic, grounded version of who I once was. My only metric is me.
It means living a life filled with joy, compassion, appreciation, and inner peace.
It means feeling free—a beautiful lightness of heart and clarity of mind that comes from knowing I'm in control of how I show up: my emotions, behaviors, values, perceptions, and thoughts.
I am a badass—with a tender heart—who genuinely loves people.
I bring joy into the spaces I enter. And if someone can’t see that? That’s on them, not me.
I am deeply creative. I create relationships, craft stories, nurture communities, and cultivate love.
That's not just what I do—that's who I am. A creator of love, connection, and compassion.
And now, I choose to turn that compassion inward.
I love myself.
Yes, some things don’t work out—even the big things. But that doesn’t shake me. I’m supported. I’m cared for. And I keep growing.
So stop overthinking. Let God move through your creativity. Trust the voice inside you.
A "no" right now is simply a "yes" to something better—even if you don’t know what that is yet.
And that’s okay.
You are okay.
Flow. Live. Be gentle with yourself.
Much Love,
A Gentle-Hearted Badass
A Thought for Your Journey
What if your worth was never up for debate?
What if success isn’t something you chase—but something you become, little by little, as you return to who you truly are?
You are already enough. Not when things fall into place. Not when others validate you. Now.
Right here, as you are.
Or, If you’d like to support my work in a simple, meaningful way, you can buy me a cup of coffee ☕✨
Healing Roots, Transforming Stories, Cultivating You
Much Love, Jae